In every election, a significant portion of Singaporean voters return to the ballot box and, with a trembling hand, check the box for the People’s Action Party (PAP).
It’s a ritual that has been repeated for decades, much like the pattern seen in those suffering from Battered Woman Syndrome, a psychological condition identified as a type of posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
Coined by psychologist Lenore Walker, EdD, in her groundbreaking 1979 book The Battered Woman, this syndrome explains the psychological effects of living with prolonged trauma, particularly intimate partner violence.
While not classified as a mental illness itself, the syndrome often leads to PTSD, which is considered a mental illness. The cycle of abuse involves tension building, violent outbursts, apologies, promises to change, and the inevitable return to violence—a vicious cycle of control, manipulation, and fear.
The comparison may seem stark, but it bears relevance to the political experience of many Singaporeans. Like those suffering from Battered Woman Syndrome, they remain trapped in a cycle of political dependence, clinging to the hope that things might one day change.
Yet, election after election, they find themselves voting for the PAP, a party that bears little resemblance to the one that once led Singapore to prosperity.
The PAP of the past, under the leadership of the late Lee Kuan Yew and his contemporaries, was a transformative force.
This generation brought post-independence Singapore from a colonial port city to a global economic powerhouse, earning its citizens’ trust and loyalty. However, those leaders are long gone, and the party today operates in a very different context, with a new set of leaders, policies, and priorities.
As Lee Kuan Yew’s younger son, Lee Hsien Yang, once said, “Today’s PAP is no longer the PAP of my father. It has lost its way.”
Yet, like someone suffering from Battered Woman Syndrome, many Singaporeans continue to vote for the PAP, holding on to the memory of a party that no longer exists. They cling to the hope that this time, things might be different—that the promises made will be kept, and the “abuses” will stop.
But election after election, the reality hits hard: the promises to improve lives and provide support during challenging times remain unfulfilled, especially as the cost of living escalates and homeownership and retirement concerns grow due to policies like tax hikes—only temporarily relieved by measures (carrots) such as GST and CDC vouchers, which some see as a euphemism for food stamps. The relationship between the people and the party remains toxic, and in some ways, worsens over time.
In this analogy, the “abuse” is not physical but political and emotional. It manifests in the erosion of freedoms, the lack of genuine political competition, and the paternalistic attitude that suggests Singaporeans cannot be trusted to make decisions for themselves.
The cycle of control mirrors Walker’s description of Battered Woman Syndrome: tension builds, dissatisfaction grows, and yet, the same promises are made over and over with no real change.
Many voters, much like those trapped in abusive relationships, have been conditioned to believe that without the PAP, the country would fall into chaos, that their livelihoods would be at risk, and that alternatives are too dangerous or incompetent to consider.
This is where the PAP’s control turns into coercive control—a key feature of Battered Woman Syndrome. The party retains control over public discourse, media narratives, and financial policies, limiting the scope for political alternatives and isolating citizens from opposing viewpoints.
The manipulation doesn’t stop at control; it extends to gaslighting as well.
Like an abusive partner, the PAP continues to undermine its “spouse’s” confidence, telling Singaporeans that they are nothing without the party—creating crises through policies and media control, all while using taxpayers’ money to maintain that grip.
The party insists that only the PAP is qualified to govern while portraying those who offer a different vision for the country as untrustworthy or incompetent, even when evidence suggests otherwise. Much like an abuser convincing their partner that they are incapable of surviving alone, the PAP perpetuates the myth that Singapore would crumble without its leadership, despite having a world-class civil service capable of running on its own.
This gaslighting leaves many voters doubting their own judgment.
But here’s the truth that so many fail to see: Singapore, much like someone suffering from Battered Woman Syndrome, has options.
There are opposition parties that offer different visions for the country, leaders who are ready to step up and serve with integrity. However, even when presented with viable alternatives—opposition parties with clear policies and capable leaders—Singaporeans continue to cling to the familiar, fearful of the unknown.
The continued loyalty to the PAP, despite the abuses, is not a sign of strength or wisdom but of fear and conditioning—an unhealthy relationship where the victim has been made to believe they cannot survive on their own.
A key element in this perceived manipulation is the role of state media, such as Straits Times and Channel News Asia, which is heavily funded by taxpayers’ money—directly and indirectly.
For instance, the recent allocation of S$900 million to SPH Media Trust has raised concerns among some observers who view it as an extension of the ruling party’s influence over public discourse.
While the government has justified this funding as necessary to support media outreach and improve journalistic quality, critics argue that such funding can blur the lines for media outlets and raise concerns about potential bias. This can leave citizens unsure of what to trust, making it difficult to distinguish between factual reporting, opinion, or sheer propaganda.
Furthermore, it appears that the alienation of independent media voices may be another tactic used to maintain control.
The Online Citizen (TOC) was effectively forced out of Singapore after being required to reveal the details of its subscribers, and its financial lifelines were impacted by declarations of POFMA Declared Online Locations—possibly as part of an effort to silence independent voices that challenge the government and fact-check the narratives pushed by state-controlled media.
These actions would appear as attempts to remove dissenting opinions and limit the public’s access to alternative perspectives, seeking to reinforce the perception that the PAP is the only viable option, casting doubt on opposition parties and alternative views.
In any case, the public is left with little room to critically evaluate the realities of governance as state-controlled media continues to frame dissent as dangerous or uninformed.
Holding on to a past that no longer exists only perpetuates the suffering.
It’s time for voters to take a hard look at their options, especially in light of the upcoming General Election and the underwhelming performance of the 4G leadership in the PAP. Voters must weigh the promises against the reality, and make a choice that reflects their true interests and aspirations.
Like a battered woman who finally finds the courage to leave, Singaporean voters must find the strength to vote for change.
The path may be uncertain, and the fear of the unknown is real, but continuing to suffer under the illusion of security is far worse. Singapore deserves better, and so do its people.
